In attempting to know how to get back with your ex, progress should be slow and steady, let things progress naturally. Whenever you get the chance, make her feel happy, humor is a great asset to have, if you don’t then learn it. Having a light atmosphere makes it easier for the two to come together. Be strong but never act proud. Never beg, for begging destroys self-respect, and women never go for weak men. As the saying goes, you never miss your water until your well runs dry. You must understand that it is she that has left and that you’re the one wanting to be together again. Women are very strong and thus it will take allot to get her back, but they are also the more forgiving and loving. So if you’re sincere, she is bound to rejoin the family.